LGBT News

I just watched Larry King Live tonight. The show’s focus was gay bullying and the recent gay suicides. I found myself getting a bit choked up while watching the show, and my heart goes out to the families.

I was bullied for being gay when I was in high school, before I even had notion that I was gay.Coming out is rough enough without bullying, but I survived. It wasn’t until I saw the show, though, that I realized just how different things are for teens and young adults today. When I was a teen, we didn’t have Facebook. Only the “elite” had the Internet (i.e. the wealthy and the extremely geeky), and social networking sites (i.e. Myspace and Facebook) weren’t even conceptualized yet. I did have to deal with bullying, but for the most part, it ended as soon as I was in the comfort of my own home. I wasn’t inundated with it during my downtime like kids are now who get online after school from home.

This and other recent experiences are making me grow a little more sensitive. I used to allow coworkers and friends to make gay jokes around me as long as I know that they are being lighthearted about it. However, a couple instances at work have gotten out of hand. The coworkers in question have no ill-intent — they’re just making bad jokes. While it doesn’t offend me, I will be putting a stop to it. How do we know that we don’t have another coworker sitting by, hearing these jokes, and getting the wrong idea. We’re not homophobic, we just have sick senses of humor. How do we know that our bad comedic taste isn’t going to lead someone else to feel unwelcome around us or worse. Maybe harmless jokes aren’t so harmless, and on some level, I feel like I’ve even contributed to actions that have condoned the bullying of my own kind.

It’s crazy (but true) to think just how intertwined all of these actions are. If you didn’t hear Kathy’s message on my front page, please listen to it here:

Repeal Prop 8. End Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. Stop the hate.

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What’s wrong with these…

So… what’s wrong with how the locker rooms are labeled at the Edgewood, PA Planet Fitness? Anyone see it?

Here’s a hint.

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Ok, It’s Rooted. Now What?

According to engadget, a couple months ago the Library of Congress “added new anti-circumvention exceptions to the DMCA that, among other things, allow people to tweak their handsets for the purpose of installing legally obtained software“. Personally, I was never extremely excited to root my Android phone. I figured I’d do it when the warranty expired or when I needed to for some reason.

Last weekend, I noticed that the “Dialer Storage” app on my original Motorola Droid was taking over 50 MB of memory. After some research, I discovered that this could have been related to MMS messages erroring out and hidden files accumulating in one of the databases. The fix involved rooting the phone. I ended up not doing it because the doc I found at the time indicated that the procedure would wipe my phone. This deterred me at the time, and purging all of my SMS/MMS messages ended up cutting Dialer Storage down to .5 MB. Mission accomplished.

This whole experience left me with a desire to tinker, though. I had saved this link previously, and decided to give it a try.  If you have an original Motorola Droid and you’re thinking about rooting it, this is the way to go. I was a little nervous about flashing SPRecovery, but the whole process went smoothly. The process should work regardless of Android OS version, which is good because a lot of the “one-click” solutions are version-dependent. I have Froyo build FRG22D, and this worked just fine.

Now my only problem is that I fixed the original problem and I have no other need to have my phone rooted. I’ve thought about tethering apps, but the free ones don’t seem to work, and I already have a Verizon mobile broadband adapter from work. Custom ROMs are probably the next option, but I’m not ready to take that plunge just yet. Does anyone have any suggestions?

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Off The Wagon

The past few weeks have been super busy. In a manner of speaking, I’ve fallen off the wagon. I haven’t been to a gym for a serious workout in over two weeks. I went on a day trip for work and I’ve been feeling ill ever since. My coworkers all have had scratchy throats and I’m still recovering from mine.

My worst enemies when it comes to fitness are travel and feeling ill. I’ve had both of them. When I mention this to anyone, they usually respond by saying “sweat it out”. I don’t like that mentality. First, I don’t want to spread my cold/flu/whatever to everyone at the gym, which leads to my second point. My body tends to allocate its resources to workout recovery before immune defenses, so in my mind workout out is hitting me while I’m down. In addition, if everyone at the gym’s body works like mine, their immune systems are weakened a bit and they’ll be more susceptible to getting my cold. At least that’s how I think of it.

I fully intend to get back to the gym once my cough goes away. Until then, I’m setting my alarm for an hour later. I’m not going to keep fooling myself into thinking “I’ll go tomorrow — I’ll feel fine in the morning.” Don’t expect to see me in either of my gyms until at least Friday.

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More On Bar Weights

As I mentioned before, the bar has weight. Dummy me never thought to look at the labels on the Smith machine to get their “bar weight”. I always assumed that the pulleys and springs counterbalanced the bar. Well, the more you know, right?

FYI: the top image is from a Hammer Strength Smith Machine at Planet Fitness in Edgewood.  The bottom one is the Cybex Smith Machine from Keysotne Health Club in East Pittsburgh. I didn’t realize this until I took the two pictures, but the Hammer Strength version is angled slightly. (i..e I’m holding the camera roughly level, the angle of the apparatus and label is the actual angle of the machine)

Anyway, now that I know that the bar has weight, I know that the 100 lbs that I thought I was pressing last week (and was struggling with) was actually 120 lbs. So, yesterday, knowing all of this, I put some weight on the bar and ended up pressing 110 lbs with a reasonable amount of struggling (which meant I was able to pump out two 12-rep sets at 110 lbs after one set at 90 lbs).

This was a big deal because in my past fitness endeavors, I’ve had a psychological block with the 45 lb plate. I’d be able to lift two 25 lb plates, but not one 45 lb plate. I think I’d get psyched out and just freeze under the bar. I still feel weird being able to do it, though, and I think I’d have a harder time with it on a regular barbell. Actually, now that I think about it, I have a similar block with some dumbbells, but that’s another post. Anyway, once I am able to add some additional weights to the 45 lb plate on the smith machine, I’ll try it with the barbell.

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Gluten Free: Week 1

Last week, I decided to experimentally give up gluten. My main reason is a little too much to go into, but I’ll basically say that it’s poo-related. It’s not a severe symptom, either, but something I’d rather do without. Thankfully Mark is always up to the challenge of figuring out ways to accommodate diets without sacrificing taste and flavor.

For the most part, eating at home has been easy, especially since we don’t eat a lot of glutenous foods anyway. There have only been a couple times where Mark has had to make something differently than usual. We do have a large stockpile of wheat-based flour to figure out what we’re going to do with if I do indeed have a sensitivity to gluten, though. Mark likes to bake here and there, so we’ve been buying all-purpose flour by the 25 lb bag at our local Costco.

Back to the diet, though: The biggest challenge has been dining out. My staple lunch used to be Subway, since it’s the only fast food within my office complex, and it’s the healthiest option within a mile of my office. I found that three of Wendy’s four new salads can be easily made without wheat products –the Spicy Chicken Cesar Salad is ok if you substitute the Ultimate Chicken Grill Fillet for the Spicy Chicken Fillet, the Baja and BLT Cobb are oky as-is, but the roasted pecans in the  Apple Pecan Chicken Salad contain wheat starch.(whaaaat??)

As for eating dinner out, sushi on Saturday evening was also a challenge. Why you ask? Soy sauce is a wheat product. My favorite casual eatery, Panera, is likely going to be out. It looks like I’ll be doing less dining out.

I’ve only given up gluten for 7 days, but oddly enough, there were three times when I believe I accidentally ingested trace amounts of gluten, and I was able to tell hours later. I’m not completely certain about this, but the Trader Joe’s 73% Cacao Super Dar Chocolate with Almonds bar that I have at my desk and have been eating a square at a time was made on equipment shared with wheat, milk, peanuts, other tree nuts, and soy. (Fortunately the Trader Joe’s Swiss 72% Cacao Dark Chocolate bar that I have here has a symbol that indicates that no gluten ingredients were used, but it was manufactured at a facility that processes wheat and eggs… should be ok, right? I think so.)

As I mentioned, this is an experiment. I’m planning to keep away from gluten for another week or two and then eat a normal amount for the following week to see if my symptoms return. If they do, I’ll be mentioning all of this to my doctor at the end of that week.

We’ll see where this goes!

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GROUP BY … WITH ROLLUP

My job is very heavily reliant on SQL. Nearly everything I do at work is in a database. Most of my SQL knowledge is self-taught. I have the MySQL documentation bookmarked and I constantly browse it looking for newer and better ways to write the queries that I already use.

I recently came across the GROUP BY Modifiers section of the MySQL documentation, and it’s revolutionized my life. Well, maybe not my life, but certainly how I write some specific queries. Continue reading

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DroidFit App Review

I’ve been an Android user for about 6 months. I haven’t tried many workout tracking apps. I tried to use GymTechnik for a while, but I never really figured it out or took the time to set it up. I toyed with the idea of writing my own app, but then I saw a write-up of DroidFit. I don’t even remember where I saw it, and I can’t find it now to link to it.  I’ve used the app for over a week. I’m quite pleasantly surprised.

The app has a pretty vast database of exercises complete with animated illustrations of the exercises. You set your routine and define the number of sets and number of seconds rest between sets. The app guides you through your workout and tracks your progress. You select your weight and reps from a list and then it gives you the option to start a timer for rest between sets. It could show you what’s next while the timer is ticking down, but that’s on the enhancement list for version 3.0. It also doesn’t allow you to enter supersets, but that’s also on the 3.0 enhancement list. It does show you your previous weight and rep entries for the exercise that you’re doing, and it calculates your 1RM (one-rep max) for you.

It seems that everything has been thought of, and the features that it’s lacking are on the enhancement list. Entering stats is super-easy and it’s helped keep me focused. Between DroidFit and Slacker Radio, the only other things I need for my workout are my earbuds, water bottle, lifting gloves, and a towel.

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This Week’s Workout Routine

I’m going to start posting my routine when I change it. This is my “basic” fallback routine. No matter what gym I’m going to, this seems to be what I start with until I get a feel for everything.

My goals at this point are a little up in the air. I know that I want more definition in general, but do I want a ripped 6-pack? Do I want to go for a more powerlifter-type build? I’m not sure. Regardless, I’m hoping to get my waist back to 36 and look better naked. I’m thinking once I start to see some results, I might focus on cardio for a month before getting back to weights. I haven’t quite decided yet.

Either way, after the jump, you have my routine. Continue reading

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The Bar Has Weight

I’d taken a pic of the warning label that I saw on the Hammer Strength Smith Machine that I’ve been using at my gym for a few weeks now, but my phone ate it somehow, so I don’t have any visual aide. Anyway, I know a typical barbell is about 45 lbs, but I’d been negating the bar weight on the Smith Machine because it’s counterbalanced with a cable, but it is in fact clearly labeled on the machine as “initial weight 20 lbs.” (If I get a pic next time, I’ll put it here because it’s funny to me how simultaneously obvious and discrete the label is.)

So… that 100 lbs I was benching yesterday was actually 120. Not bad, but I was struggling. I was doing 135 before the hernia, so I’ve still got a ways to go before I’m back to my old strength. My workout logbook is going to be a little skewed now that I know this, but that’s ok, right?

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